Reduce Your Dog's Anxiety At The New Groomer

Maybe your last groomer was your dog's soul mate until she retired. Now you and your dog are both nervous, and you've got an appointment at a new groomer.

These easy tips can help you both glide easily through to your shiny new grooming experience.

As natural pack animals, dogs will look to their owners as pack leaders for cues about new situations. Know that they watch every move and can detect your unconscious hints of fear, anxiety, and aggression. Walk tall, smile, and be friendly. "Follow me, Fluffy!"

Don't feel bad for your dog! Realize that grooming is not punishment, but can be more like an indulgent trip to the spa. You feel cleaner and happier after a refreshing shower, and we all walk just a little bit prouder after a fantastic haircut. "My dog is going to love this."

Avoid negative phrases like, "I'm so sorry you have to go to the groomer, honey, but you'll feel better and you'll get lots of treats when you're done." You can even substitute your mother's phrase, "Think of all the crusty homeless dogs in Africa who would love to go to this groomer."

Focus on how nice your dog will look when they're done to help you send out positive signals about the situation. Think calm, happy thoughts when walking into the grooming shop to announce to your pet that you've arrived at a welcoming place. "You are going to look great."

Introduce yourself to the groomer with a smile and a handshake. Initiating this kind of touch in front of your dog can help build trust. "See, puppy? The groomer touched me and nothing bad happened."

Most groomers pet down a new dog before admission to check the condition of the coat. Let the groomer know if your dog doesn't like his head scratched or if she prefers to sniff first. "Fifi, meet Sarah. Sarah, Fifi prefers to sniff and lick your hand first"

Lastly, when it's time for you to leave, firmly hand the leash over and walk away calmly. Don't try to sneak out or linger because it can give the impression that you expect something bad to happen. Know that dogs get groomed with great results every single day. Remember that most groomers are also dog owners and dog lovers who will treat your dog like their own.

Say this last phrase out loud as you hand off the leash and know that it's true for you both:
"I know you'll be fine".